Pleasuring the Penis - Online Version

Whether you're seeing someone new, are in a long-term relationship with established sexual patterns, or are just not overly confident in giving your partner(s) genital pleasure, our intimacy can *always* benefit from new ideas and learnings.

This 2.5 hour online session is a verbally guided pleasure practice, to discover and learn new ways to offer your partner/lover/friend, genital pleasure (with your hands). Genital massage and hand-play can be one of the most erotic, pleasurable and incredible orgasmic sexual experiences you could have, and Tess is here to show you how!

You will be verbally guided through seventeen varieties of penis strokes and techniques to try on your partner. These include a variety of touch, breath, movement and mindfulness. This is a chance to really get to know your partners genitals and how they like to be pleasured, with no agenda. The aim is to discover and ignite more pleasure pathways and orgasmicity for your ongoing sexual fun, all in the comfort of your own home.

For the person receiving, your penis is perfect as it is, and things like arousal, engorgement, wetness or erectness are not an expectation. This workshop is about curiosity and playfulness, not agenda. Also, the person receiving the touch (the person with the penis type genital configuration) can also stop this experience at any time, say 'no-thanks' to any touch they do not wish to receive or even stop/leave the workshop any time they want.

The first hour is clothes on, for a meet & greet and the host will introduce how it will all work, go through some basic anatomy and explain/demo the strokes (on an object!)

After setting up your space and taking a quick break, all videos and microphones are off (except the host!), so you and the person you are with, may drop into a personal, embodied, shared pleasure practice, verbally guided by your facilitator, Tess.

After which, we all come back together (clothes on) for a debrief.

What’s the goal? Tess’ goal is to offer partners the opportunity to explore and discover new ways of pleasure that may have been unknown and for participants to walk away with more confidence in how to offer pleasure (and how to receive it!). To offer a new, intentional way to connect with each other, without agenda or expectation and perhaps get some great ideas for future play together!

All genders are welcome here, however this workshop is specifically to practice hands on techniques on those who have a penis, so at least one person will need that type of genital configuration to be ‘practiced’ on.

This is not a space for voyeurism or exhibitionism and no persons in pleasure will be visible to any others in the session at all. This is a guided, personal experience between you and your partner. This is not about reaching orgasm or any type of climax, it is about exploring new ways to pleasure your partner’s penis, with your hands (of course, if you happen to orgasm/come, that is welcome).

When you book in we will send you details about setting up your space for the optimal experience. Please note that video / webcam is essential for this event, so have a think about what's in the background. You must both be in a reasonably quiet room, free from interruptions. It's preferable if you've got combined headsets with microphone for the beginning and end group conversations.

See full details of this event on the website.